As an executive coach to leaders across the spectrum, I offer tools and resources on just about any issue. But who knew how soon I’d have to lean into some of those very tools myself.
It was supposed to be a relaxing few days to explore Coeur d’Alene, Idaho with our son and his wife. And then, while playing doubles pickleball (I know what you’re thinking ) I heard a loud ‘pop!’ Immediately we all recognized what had happened as I crumpled to the ground.
Looking back on how we worked through the next few days,
I recognized three lessons that supported me through this ordeal.
- Humility
As soon as we returned to our room, my son filled an ice chest with ice and water and insisted I immerse my foot in this ice bath for 5 minutes at a time. Everyone offered their physical support as I hopped around on my strong leg.
- Decisiveness.
Because I was with family, we drove to a big box store and purchased a knee scooter that would allow me some mobility. We determined I could wait to see a physician until I returned home if I kept up my ice bath routine.
- Resilience
I knew I had a choice. I could hide out in my room, or I could play Arboretum or Wavelength with everyone on the couch. I chose to play games. I listened to the recommendations from family members about what steps to take. I discovered how to maneuver a knee scooter on a variety of surfaces.
Experiencing this injury was more than a physical setback—
It’s a masterclass in humility, decisiveness and resilience.
✅ -Humility takes place when leaders learn to depend on their team.
✅ -Decisiveness is critical to create better outcomes.
✅ -Resilience occurs as setbacks create space for growth.
Watching the NBA finals earlier this year, we witnessed Indiana Pacer’s phenom Tyrese Haliburton’s shocking Achilles injury. In a lengthy post the next day, he summed up his emotions with a quote from the late LA Lakers’ Kobe Bryant – who experienced the same injury in 2013.
Haliburton concluded, “I think Kobe said it best, ‘There are far greater issues/challenges in the world than a torn Achilles. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, find the silver lining and get to work with the same belief, same drive and same conviction as ever.’”
My learning and recovery are far from over…
As leaders, you frequently face unexpected challenges. I’d love to hear how your setbacks have impacted your leadership and your work. Please share in the comments.
